My deepest condolences to the Chalfant family. Words can not express the pain and sadness of losing those so dear to our hearts. Take comfort in knowing that very soon, we will see the effects of death and pain gone forever as brought out in Revelation 21:4 where it reads: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away." Until this time, I hope the memories of Cathy will help ease your pain and grief. May the "God of All Comfort" be with you now and in the difficult days ahead. (2 Corinthians 1:3,4)